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		<title>By: Magnolia</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-965</link>
		<dc:creator>Magnolia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 19:26:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I take it you mean noticing similarites to that there is a basis to build consensus on?  As a way to unite our commonalities as humans?

I find differences fascinating.  In fact, I&#039;m drawn to anything that is different from the status quo or the norm.  I find it stimulating mentally, emotionally, physically even.  Similarity puts me to me. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I take it you mean noticing similarites to that there is a basis to build consensus on?  As a way to unite our commonalities as humans?</p>
<p>I find differences fascinating.  In fact, I&#8217;m drawn to anything that is different from the status quo or the norm.  I find it stimulating mentally, emotionally, physically even.  Similarity puts me to me. <img src='http://jaredakers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jared</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-964</link>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 19:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Magnolia,
What a great perspective on this article! Thank you so much for that. The amazing part is to be able to notice the differences and still find what is lovely about every human being and creature. Which I think starts by noticing the similarities. 

Thanks for stopping back by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Magnolia,<br />
What a great perspective on this article! Thank you so much for that. The amazing part is to be able to notice the differences and still find what is lovely about every human being and creature. Which I think starts by noticing the similarities. </p>
<p>Thanks for stopping back by.</p>
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		<title>By: Magnolia</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-963</link>
		<dc:creator>Magnolia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 18:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post Jared.  So, let me ask you, when you look at a rose, do you notice that is different from the peony?

Or if you look at a Jaguar, do you notice it is different from a Mercedes? (my next car, I swear :) )

Because, the facts are, our minds are hard-wired to discriminate.  And I use that word in the scientic, biological, psychological sense - not in a legal, racist sense.

We descriminate between stiumuli of all sorts and our mind will sort, categorize and evaluate based on those differences.  So, THAT you notice color is not more indicative that you dislike black people than you would dislike a peony because you say it wasn&#039;t a rose.  you know?

I notice Asian people.  I notice Indian people.  I notice Hispanic people.  Heck, I even notice men separate from women.  That doesn&#039;t make me sexist.  I notice difference.   it is the &#039;jugement&#039; that we make about those differences that would render us racist, sexist or what have you.

I don&#039;t think it&#039;s humanly possible to not notice black over white or white over black.  But, it certainly doesn&#039;t make you racist.

Hope you are well.  Haven&#039;t been to your blog lately.  Glad to see you throwing out those thought-provoking questions.

you can get back to world peace next post. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post Jared.  So, let me ask you, when you look at a rose, do you notice that is different from the peony?</p>
<p>Or if you look at a Jaguar, do you notice it is different from a Mercedes? (my next car, I swear <img src='http://jaredakers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  )</p>
<p>Because, the facts are, our minds are hard-wired to discriminate.  And I use that word in the scientic, biological, psychological sense &#8211; not in a legal, racist sense.</p>
<p>We descriminate between stiumuli of all sorts and our mind will sort, categorize and evaluate based on those differences.  So, THAT you notice color is not more indicative that you dislike black people than you would dislike a peony because you say it wasn&#8217;t a rose.  you know?</p>
<p>I notice Asian people.  I notice Indian people.  I notice Hispanic people.  Heck, I even notice men separate from women.  That doesn&#8217;t make me sexist.  I notice difference.   it is the &#8216;jugement&#8217; that we make about those differences that would render us racist, sexist or what have you.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s humanly possible to not notice black over white or white over black.  But, it certainly doesn&#8217;t make you racist.</p>
<p>Hope you are well.  Haven&#8217;t been to your blog lately.  Glad to see you throwing out those thought-provoking questions.</p>
<p>you can get back to world peace next post. <img src='http://jaredakers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jared</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-962</link>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 18:24:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Finola,
You are so right, &quot;It’s not that you shouldn’t see colour, but it’s the reaction it causes in you, and what you see in it.&quot; And yes, ignorance and fear. I guess sometimes we need to look at how far we&#039;ve come. Like when I view and compare myself to others (which I still do sometimes) I don&#039;t seem to be where I want to be. Either spiritually, emotionally, or even physically. But what I really need to concentrate on is, how far I&#039;ve come! By those standards, I simply a completely different man. Thanks for reminding me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finola,<br />
You are so right, &#8220;It’s not that you shouldn’t see colour, but it’s the reaction it causes in you, and what you see in it.&#8221; And yes, ignorance and fear. I guess sometimes we need to look at how far we&#8217;ve come. Like when I view and compare myself to others (which I still do sometimes) I don&#8217;t seem to be where I want to be. Either spiritually, emotionally, or even physically. But what I really need to concentrate on is, how far I&#8217;ve come! By those standards, I simply a completely different man. Thanks for reminding me!</p>
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		<title>By: Jared</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-961</link>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 18:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nadia,
One thing I&#039;ve discovered is, the more I learn about myself, the more I see the similarities in all creatures. Thanks for taking the time to stop by and comment. Your insight is always a blessing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nadia,<br />
One thing I&#8217;ve discovered is, the more I learn about myself, the more I see the similarities in all creatures. Thanks for taking the time to stop by and comment. Your insight is always a blessing!</p>
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		<title>By: Nadia - Happy Lotus</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-960</link>
		<dc:creator>Nadia - Happy Lotus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 11:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jared,

One of the many things that I do believe in is that we are all one. We are all brothers and sisters. I have never understood why people focus so much on the so called &quot;differences&quot; and make judgments accordingly. 

As someone whose skin color is a bit brown, I have had my share of racism done to me. When I was a kid, my family was the first ethnic family in the neighborhood and I was made fun of daily. It was very painful and with time, I realized that they just did not know better. As more ethnic families moved in, people became more tolerant.

I also realized that behind the differences in appearance, we all have the same blood, organs and so on. Actually, the human DNA is 99.9 the same for all of us. Only one tenth of a percent is different. Humans focus on that one-tenth difference and ignore the rest. 

Just like Finola said, a lot of the discrimination we see is due to ignorance and fear.  I also agree with Walter that eventually people will realize that we are all one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jared,</p>
<p>One of the many things that I do believe in is that we are all one. We are all brothers and sisters. I have never understood why people focus so much on the so called &#8220;differences&#8221; and make judgments accordingly. </p>
<p>As someone whose skin color is a bit brown, I have had my share of racism done to me. When I was a kid, my family was the first ethnic family in the neighborhood and I was made fun of daily. It was very painful and with time, I realized that they just did not know better. As more ethnic families moved in, people became more tolerant.</p>
<p>I also realized that behind the differences in appearance, we all have the same blood, organs and so on. Actually, the human DNA is 99.9 the same for all of us. Only one tenth of a percent is different. Humans focus on that one-tenth difference and ignore the rest. </p>
<p>Just like Finola said, a lot of the discrimination we see is due to ignorance and fear.  I also agree with Walter that eventually people will realize that we are all one.</p>
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		<title>By: Finola Prescott</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-959</link>
		<dc:creator>Finola Prescott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 11:15:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A quote from a classic song for your post: Bob Marley&#039;s &#039;War&#039; 

&quot;Until the colour of a man&#039;s skin
Is of no more significance than the colour of his eyes - &quot;

(full lyrics http://tinyurl.com/ygta3b2 )

It&#039;s not that you shouldn&#039;t see colour, but it&#039;s the reaction it causes in you, and what you see in it. People are different colours, sizes, cultures, religions; I try to think of this diversity as something akin to biodiversity - it&#039;s what makes the world whole. 

Unfortunately so many people don&#039;t see that and feel that in order to be whole, their way must be right and others wrong. Much of the time it&#039;s born of ignorance and fear, and talking about it like this, or taking the first step and saying &#039;Hi&#039; like you, is the only way we&#039;ll pick down that wall.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A quote from a classic song for your post: Bob Marley&#8217;s &#8216;War&#8217; </p>
<p>&#8220;Until the colour of a man&#8217;s skin<br />
Is of no more significance than the colour of his eyes &#8211; &#8221;</p>
<p>(full lyrics <a href="http://tinyurl.com/ygta3b2" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/ygta3b2</a> )</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not that you shouldn&#8217;t see colour, but it&#8217;s the reaction it causes in you, and what you see in it. People are different colours, sizes, cultures, religions; I try to think of this diversity as something akin to biodiversity &#8211; it&#8217;s what makes the world whole. </p>
<p>Unfortunately so many people don&#8217;t see that and feel that in order to be whole, their way must be right and others wrong. Much of the time it&#8217;s born of ignorance and fear, and talking about it like this, or taking the first step and saying &#8216;Hi&#8217; like you, is the only way we&#8217;ll pick down that wall.</p>
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		<title>By: Jared</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-958</link>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 03:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Walter,
That&#039;s interesting and I feel that. Meaning I feel that we have departed from one another somehow and we all are connected. One of the greatest gifts I&#039;ve discovered in my spiritual and self-seeking journey, is compassion and empathy for myself; something I realize now I didn&#039;t have for most of my life. The result of that has been so much more than I expected. It has allowed me to relate better to all people... it&#039;s sort of hard to explain. But it&#039;s something I feel from others more than hear or see. It&#039;s like once I learned how to get all the emotions and thoughts connected with my heart, I am able to feel them and accept them from others. Body language, eyes, tone of voice, etc. we all speak and the language is the same regardless of race or religion.  Especially in those who have been through similar life experiences. It really ended up being the other way around... discover those deep inner-working of myself so I can see and feel them in others.

Thanks for stopping and taking the time to comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Walter,<br />
That&#8217;s interesting and I feel that. Meaning I feel that we have departed from one another somehow and we all are connected. One of the greatest gifts I&#8217;ve discovered in my spiritual and self-seeking journey, is compassion and empathy for myself; something I realize now I didn&#8217;t have for most of my life. The result of that has been so much more than I expected. It has allowed me to relate better to all people&#8230; it&#8217;s sort of hard to explain. But it&#8217;s something I feel from others more than hear or see. It&#8217;s like once I learned how to get all the emotions and thoughts connected with my heart, I am able to feel them and accept them from others. Body language, eyes, tone of voice, etc. we all speak and the language is the same regardless of race or religion.  Especially in those who have been through similar life experiences. It really ended up being the other way around&#8230; discover those deep inner-working of myself so I can see and feel them in others.</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping and taking the time to comment.</p>
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		<title>By: Walter</title>
		<link>http://jaredakers.com/racism-and-spiritual-growth/#comment-957</link>
		<dc:creator>Walter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 01:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In the beginning, we are One, when we are conceived in this world we become departed. Our life&#039;s mission is to be connected once again, and only through wisdom and growth do we achieve this. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the beginning, we are One, when we are conceived in this world we become departed. Our life&#8217;s mission is to be connected once again, and only through wisdom and growth do we achieve this. <img src='http://jaredakers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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